Booting a Bookworm Off the Treadmill, Bachelorette Partying with Your Husband's Mom, and Other Questionable Advice Caity Weaver · 03/07/13 06:06PM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions (max: 200 words) to caity@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."