Scoring Sunday's Nuptials: Let Them Eat Brooklyn Hipster Cake Toppers Phyllis Nefler · 09/20/09 01:15PM Phyllis Nefler eats lots of cake, emotionally and otherwise. She's yet to meet her dream cake—which probably comes from B.C. and rhymes with "shmooberry sush"—but it's out there. NYT's Weddings & Celebrations, help us find it.