So many women have had experience with our current obsession, New York Casanova Paul Janka! Including this woman: "Listen Gawker, this is the Paul Janka I dated. He was an educated, good conversationalist that I met at Pastis during a snowstorm, and he never got in my pants. He was upfront about his spread sheet. I said that it was gross. I told him I would never touch his thingy unless he got tested and showed me the results .. which meant never, cause who does that? We talked on the phone mostly about politics, family and life. He never said gross pervy things to me. Until.... One night I met him at his place and he answered the door jerking off. I ran away. I stopped answering his phone calls. He left voice mails here and there over the years." He also left this epistolary record!