While you were crying over re-runs on Thursday night NBC, The Real Housewives of New York were hashing it out in the press, to their friends, and over speakerphone.

This ongoing battle between frenemies Jill Zarin and Bethenny Frankel was finally confronted via speaker-phone conversation. Both sides of the argument are understandable in this conflict that rivals only Team Edward and Team Jacob. Can't we all just be friends?