Gay Soldiers Can't Tell Yet 5.51K Adrian Chen 12/19/10 07:33PM Filed to: Dadt Dadt The Gays Military Soldiers don't ask don't tell Getty pic Don't Ask Don't Tell is dead but still remains in effect. The Human Rights Campaign says it's not safe for soldiers to come out yet. If you're looking to be the last person discharged under DADT, though now's your chance.